Life

Life !! What is life...?? What makes your life awesome and what makes it boring...?? What makes your life rocking and what makes it suck ..??

    Life is a mirror. It reflects as you choose to, not what it actually has to show. So sad, ya ?? The many times you look at the mirror, it only presents your thought of how you are looking. If you think you look dashing, handsome, hot , sexy ;  then it shows same, no matter how poor be your dressings or the makeups.  Similarly, even if your dressings or makeups are highly decorated, but you have a feeling of incompletion then you will always find yourself ugly.

      There's a saying in Nepali " Phool ko aankha maa Phoolai sansaara"; which indicates same thing as above, that we see the things in the way we want to see, not actually what they seem to be. If we try, we need not to find great things to make our life pleasing and beautiful ; even mere things might also do it. As an example, we try decorating our house or rooms with high class furnitures which are much expensive also and this is not due to the necessity, but due to lack of confidence to decorate with our own sense. Only for decoration purpose, there comes economic loss as well as cramped rooms. If we want and if we reverse and widen the direction of our thinking then we  may find that natural beauty is the most pleasant way to decorate. Flowers and leaves add a great beauty to your rooms and house,too.

             The second tragic fate is that we compare our lifestyles with that of the others. At some times of the life, we say or try to prove that we are not like them and all but rest of the time, we try to be them. What is your say ??

                              Indeed, we all have varied way of thinking, we have different choices in life, we have varied tastes of food; but we try to be them and we try to have the lifestyle as them. Very sad !! With our own choices and likes-dislikes, it is never possible to be happy by copying lifestyles of others. Why ?? Cause, however you try you lack some base for it. Hope you understood what lacks.
            In this whole lines of words, I am simply trying to suggest a point that be happy with your own life. Who knows someone else might be fond of your lifestyle ?

Lets see a small example and close this topic with its moral :
    No matter, its natural for us to think that the richest are the most happiest ones, but saddest part is they are the ones with most saddest life style. You may wonder how ?? , they have such a luxurious life. Yes being luxurious, is the fact that makes them saddest one. They are worried in their every steps. May it be while investing their income or while storing them. While investing, they get worried if their investment goes in loss and similarly, while saving, they feel fear if any calamities affect the area where they stored. Meanwhile, Poor ones, they have very pleasing lifestyle. No worries as compared to that of the rich ones, only about basic needs. But rich ones, even after getting their basic needs fulfilled, they have tragedy. Now see who has the most sorrowful life..???
        If the richest feel that they are consent with their gains then they feel atleast less tensed. But similarly, if poors try to imitate the lifestyles of the rich, they start being sad, all happiness from their life slowly drains out. Meanwhile, their is also a fact that most of the richests are fond of/trying to live a life that of which the poors live, a pleasant life.

I guess, this will be answered with lots of comments and discussions and so if it happens I would be glad enough. Thank you.

KDB Ghimire (Darpan),
leodarpang@gmail.com